Today we are
going to talk about that one little thing people don’t like to talk about—business
networking events. A lot of people think they’re useless. “Why even bother when
we can just do everything online?” That is absolutely correct—if you do not
want to succeed in your business.
Truth is,
going to networking events can increase your sales very, very rapidly for little
or no cost. Should you do them? Yes! Should you do them if you’re a 20-year-old
business? Definitely.
Picking a Business Networking Event
Let’s start
off with what kind of events you should go to. There are free events and paid
for events. Picking an event is more about where would the people you’re looking
for be hanging out. Don’t go to an event full of scientists if you sell
something that’s not scientific or something that scientists hate. Figure out
where your people hang out. Do they hang out at the local Chamber of Commerce
events? Do they hang out at free meetups? Where do they hang out?
We’ve been
to a lot of networking events—free events, paid events, Chamber of Commerce
events, Board of Trade events, inexpensive events, expensive events. In our experience, paid events usually have a
higher level of people; people more likely to do business to business type
stuff. Free events tend to be more business to customer type people, or
businesses that are just starting out with a little bit less money.
So if you’re selling a little bit higher ticket item, a paid event will probably get you a better audience because they’re already people that have been proven to pay for stuff, and because they’re paying for the event. It just usually gives you a different caliber of people. In the B2B, especially, paid events are awesome. In the B2C, they’re also awesome; you just get a little bit different caliber of people. Meetups are great because they’re super-specific. Meetups that cost money would, again, qualify for both.
Do’s and Don’ts of Going to Networking Events
1. Attire
Let’s talk
about something really simple—how should you look when you go to a networking
event? Basically, you want to look like
the person people want to do business with. Sometimes you’re feeling a little
bit slow, and you’re not really in the mood, and you know that most of the people
that go to that event usually don’t wear a suit and tie (usually casual at
best), so you think of going casual in your golf shirt as well. Most people
won’t take you seriously in that attire.
Think about the
last time you went to anywhere out in public, and you saw somebody dressed in
T-shirt, jeans, and riders, unkempt, and unshaven. How do you think of that
person? Do you think of him as being successful? Do you think that they can do
a great job of selling you $300 an hour business consulting, or accounting, or
a lawyer? Maybe they could. They could be incredibly skilled. But you’re not
going to know it by looking at them. However, if you see somebody dressed in a
suit, even if it’s not a really expensive one. Not necessarily a tie, but a
nice shirt, cufflinks—subtle things. It can set people apart. It’s all about
first impressions.
I hear it
all the time at networking events as people make excuse for their poor attire, “I
dress this way because I believe in comfort.” Ninety-nine percent of the time,
the more you learn about the people that go on and on about comfort, and the
reasons they’re going to be different, it’s always been “I wear all these crazy
prints because it’s my identity.” Fair enough. They’re allowed to do that. But
if you’re there to increase your sales quickly, we recommend you put your ego
and yourself on the shelf, and do what’s going to attract you the highest
quality and biggest numbers of people that want to interact and buy stuff from
you.
2. Accessories
Let’s look
at little things like accessories. We see this all the time with men and women—excessive
jewelry, piercings, tattoos. The reality is you can be super proud of your
tattoo, which is awesome. And, as long as you understand that having that
tattoo is going to turn off 30 percent of the potential customers (and you’re
okay with that), you shouldn’t change.
But if you’re about rapidly increasing your sales, which is what Small Business Dream is all about, I’d recommend covering up the tattoos, not because I hate him or love them. It’s about, “Do you turn off that one guy or one lady that might have brought you a $50,000 contract because of your tattoo pride?” Our advice is, don’t do anything that might turn away a customer.
A lot of people
will prejudge, unfortunately. Personal preference is completely up to you. But
when somebody has seventeen piercings on their face—tongue, lip, nose, eyebrow,
earlobe—and has tattoos running up the side of his neck, it can be a little bit
of a turn off. Unless they’re looking for a tattoo parlor owner or a piercing
person, they’re probably not going to engage with that person. It’s just human
nature. If that’s your business, you’re going to want to show off what you do.
But that’s the type of clientele you’re going to attract and you’ll go to the
networking events that are specific for that type of clientele
3. Dressing up for the occasion
We were at a
branding event where there was a lady who sold her own custom clothes, and she went
against the speaker quite strongly and saying, “Well, I wear my own
clothes instead of the converting colors. I wear my super colorful clothes
because then I’m my own billboard.”
She just
went on and on, and he looked her right in the eyes and said, “So why are
you here learning about branding to make your business better? Because, obviously,
what you’re doing isn’t working as well as you thought.”
And then he asked the crowd and he said, “Hey everybody, if you met her saying that she has her own clothing brand, and you met her at a networking event, would you have trust in her? Would you have belief in her with the way she’s dressed?” And basically the whole room said “No.”
So there she
was, wearing her clothes that she’s so proud of, and trying to sell online.
They weren’t even bad-looking clothes. But the trust of people thinking that
she’s the person to engage with for clothes in a business setting was not there.
So her ‘billboard,’ as she thought it was, might be appropriate to some events
like a fashion-centered event, but not necessarily the right thing to do in a
business networking event where, maybe, she’s looking for distributors of her
clothes.
We’re not
here to judge people for what they do. We’re simply saying, if you want to
accelerate your sales as fast as possible, dress the part of the networking
event you’re going to. It’s critical.
4. Blending in with the crowd
It’s really
hard to overdress, but you can definitely underdress for the event. Still, you
can overdress. For instance, don’t show up to a networking event in a tuxedo
and tails, unless everyone else is in tuxedo and tails. The rule of thumb is,
you want to be at par with the speaker of an event. But what about business
tycoons like Mark Zuckerberg and Steve Jobs? These guys dress the way they want
to dress and it doesn’t seem to impact their businesses at all. The simple
answer is, when you have that many ‘zeros’ in your bank account, you can dress
the way you want to.
Why Go to Networking Events?
Why would somebody that’s in business for 20 years and trips across us with our Small Business Sales Blueprint tell people to start going to networking events? Why would they even think that that’s a good idea? What are reasons someone in business for 20 years might want to go reengage face to face?
Stay top-of-mind to your clients. Let’s look at seasoned companies. There’s
always new people coming out. It’s branding. It’s getting your face known. We
go to networking events and we’ve been doing it year after year. People are
seeing us year after year at the events. That trust, that rapport starts to get
built up because we’re still there. We’re still doing the same thing. They’re seeing
your face over and over again, and the familiarity creates trust. And trust
eventually creates referrals and puts you now top of mind, and that turns in
sales.
Test things out in the real world. If you are that person who has a 20-year-old company or a-10-year old company, and you’re trying to find a way to increase your business quickly, the biggest advantage of going to a networking event is you can start testing out the things you say online, in your store, in your interactions on a whole bunch of people all at once. Say, you’re thinking of a tagline for a video online. You can go, “Hi I’m Dennis. I’m with Small Business Dream, and we are the number one global small business sales experts,” and I can look someone in the eye as I deliver that message and see if it resonates or not. It works really well for testing headlines of email campaigns and all kinds of things. And if you go there and you just smash it (you go to ten networking events in a month), you’re going to have people talking about you.
Connect with other businesses. We go to networking events to meet people. Are we going to thenetworking event to sell people? Nope. Are we going there to make friends? Yes. However, we’re not really out there just to make friends, but with an ulterior motive to make a ‘business friend.’ Don’t get engaged in a conversation which has nothing to do with business, because that means missing out on a bunch of other people that might want to know about your business. You need a ‘sniper-like’ approach where your plan is to make friends, but with a motive. You’re not there just to make friends and hope they’d ask you what you do and come. You’re there to generate enough interest in what you do from everyone you talk to that they might want to bring a friend to your business.
Get as many contacts as possible. You got to stay on point that you’re there to
do business. The point is, don’t get into ‘pitch mode.’ You want to create the
curiosity of what you do and then leave it alone. Go on to the next person,
unless they engage you. And even if they engage you, be mindful how long you
engage with that person. Remember, you only got an hour of networking in that event.
Do you really want to get into a fifteen-minute pitch to one guy that probably isn’t
going to buy from you anyways? Or do you want to make half the room know who
you are and what you do so they can bring you people?
Business Cards or No Business Cards?
Now to the
question, “Business cards, or no business cards?” There’s a couple different
camps on that, and they seem to be getting more and more divided. I’ll preface
this within my opinion. If you’re at a speed networking event, business cards
are a must. You just can’t write down people’s information or connect with them
in a meaningful way fast enough if you have eight people sharing their
30-second story with each other before moving on to the next table and doing it
again. It depends on what kind of a
networking event you’re at.
I’m still of the camp that having a business card is helpful. But, of course, we at Small Business Dream also understood that a lot of Millennials aren’t so much thinking the same way, and there’s lots of cases where we just plain ran out. So, we actually created the Small Business Button.
“The Button”
The Button
is a free app which you can online from your appropriate store. Here’s how to
use the Button app:
Let’s say you meet somebody at a networking event. You could say to him, “Hi Dennis. Good to meet you,” and simply ask his number. Type his name in the app and say, “Push the button,” (it will make a cool sound). It will auto-populate a pre-formatted message which then goes to your text messaging platform. Push the ‘send text’ and it sends that text message. You can get it free if you go to 88ur.com/button. It will automatically take you from your mobile device to your appropriate store to download the free Button app.
What’s
really good about the Button app is it’s tactile. It also makes an impression
(you can even change the button top to be your company instead of our company).
It can be a bit of a conversation piece. People love it, they share it with
others—it’s a really cool way when you don’t have business cards, or you just
want to do something different that makes people remember you.
Just
remember to always make them push the button; don’t do it for them. Show the
phone and say, “Push the button.” Next time around, they’ll remember
you as “The Button Guy.” It creates a memorable ‘hook’ to remind people of you.
Get Down to Your Data—Fast!
Another
thing that happens in networking events is people will often end up with a stack—great
big stack—of business cards. You go home, and they go on to your desk beside
your computer. That was a Monday event. Tuesday, they move a little further
away, and then Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and then finally into the
circular filing cabinet—that’s the garbage—because they’re no good by now.
The worst
part is, that’s your ‘gold.’ That’s the data you work hard with. So, what you
really need to be doing if you’re going to be at business networking events, is
have a proper introduction email and take the time to send it. And, of course,
nobody has the time to send 30 emails. So, get yourself some sort of a system.
We recommend smallbizdream.com as your sales and marketing automation solution. Get some kind of automation where you can, in our case, take a picture of the card, enter some details about who they are, it goes to a live transcriber, it comes back, it triggers your email, they can be entered into a series, and all these kinds of cool stuff. Have something that collects that data and sends them a welcome email.
Don’t blast
them with everything you do. You’re not there to sell them; you’re there to
make a connection. The easiest way to connection is say, “Hey, nice
meeting you at that event. Do you know any other cool events that are coming
up?” Just ask some information. Create that relationship. Don’t immediately go
into, “I’m Dennis, and I saw this, and I saw that, yada yada yada.” That’s
what the people that do it wrong do, and that doesn’t actually further your
relationships. That will actually make them avoid you at the next networking
event you go to. You’ll actually see them, sort of, staying as far out of your
orbit as possible when you do that. So don’t do it wrong; do it right.
Final Thoughts
So, let’s
wrap up with everything we’ve learned thus far.”Dress for success,”
look good, make sure that you’re connecting with as many people as possible. Make
your 40-second elevator pitch down. Get your words down—what to say, who your
ideal client is, what you do.
The worst
thing you can say is, “Oh, I’m a financial planner.” You watch, like
Moses parting the Red Sea. People will not come near you. And that’s only because
they know what comes next. But if instead you said something as simple as,
“You know what? I’m a financial planner and I focus on people in the IT
community that run companies between one and four million dollars. Do you know
anyone that might need my help?”
Everyone who
knows somebody like that is likely to refer them to you because now you’re interesting.
Now you have a specialized expertise that the other financial planners in the
room don’t have. So, don’t think, “The broader you make it, the more
people you will get,” because your target isn’t the people in the room.
Your target is some people they know who decide that you’re interesting and
specific enough to bring someone to you.
There’s a cool
little trick we want to share with you using LinkedIn which is a hybrid of
online and person-to-person, face to face networking. If you get access to the microphone,
or you get to stand up and you get to say who you are, what you’re doing, you
can get access to ‘controlling the crowd,’ so to speak, Craig’s little LinkedIn
trick is pretty cool—cool enough that we should save that for our next blog.
So once again, consistency, pre-plan it and continue to go and grow your business. Make more people, make it a goal. Before you head out to your networking event, have a goal in mind. “I’m going to meet five people, ten people, whatever that number is. Go for big number, and that’ll keep your introductions short. You want to make sure you listen to them twice as much as you talk. So, if you have two minutes of things to say, find a way to get them to speak for four minutes.
Look in the mirror before you leave. Make sure you’re dressed for success. You want to be approachable (do not wear excess perfume or cologne). Be respectful. Try to help people. The best way is give people tips. Help them with things you can help them with. Offer advice, offer suggestions, do things that are good for them instead of trying to sell them. Stop trying to sell people on the first time you meet them.